Flower girl dresses, Target Style

I'm not a big fan of dresses that cost over $150 for a bridesmaid much less one for a 5 year old that is more than likely going to get into something sticky 2 seconds after pictures are done and outgrow the thing a week after the wedding.

So for my wedding we went a bit more non traditional route and found the flower girls dress for a whole $15. Where, I hear you asking. Why at Target of course.

This is just a sampling of the dresses the have. If you're having a more wintry or darker hued wedding wouldn't one of these just look amazing and best of all every one of them is under $25.

As Regal as Purple

1 Lavendar Earrings $19 2. Lavendar Necklace $40 3. Lavendar Bracelet $20
4. Deep Purple $28 5. Amethyst Comb $48 6. Light bracelet $32
7. Purple Earrings $28 8. Burgandy Pearls $44 9.Gold crystal $40
10. Rose Hair pin $8 11. Copper pearl ring $18 12. Wild Berries hair pin $35

The birthday cake

This weekend for me was spend creating the best birthday cake a 4 year old farm kid can possibly imagine. I have a few tricks up my sleeve after 1 year of doing some cake decorating (though I did very few cakes during that time). Most of all, don't be afraid to try something. Oh and watch Ace of Cakes on a regular basis. They are super creative.

Anyway on with the story. I baked the cake last weekend actually. I allowed it to cool and got rid of some areas where there was some excess cake, such as between the wheels (which were all but connected). I then did a skim layer of frosting (mostly so I wouldn't get crumbs in the rest of the icing when I did the actual decoration). After this I promptly stuck the cake in the freezer until Saturday morning when the mess began. Ok, I lied, the mess actually began on Friday when I made the icing and blended the coloring into the icing.

Coloring icing is a challenge, especially if you want vivid colors. I used gel icing colors, but it still took a LOT, especially the green and black. Hint: go easy on the yellow though, it does not take NEARLY as much.

I stirred for a while and then decided to create the engine compartment. This was a real challenge. Although most people wouldn't care, my husband is a Technician at John Deere and felt that I had to do everything to a tee. I failed, but I really liked the engine (recreated from a blurry picture found on google). I also realized from that picture that the cab corners should have been black, but I wasn't about to scape the frosting at that time.

Well, after about 2 hours of frosting and starring and starring some more, this is what I came up with:

The "dirt" around the tractor is a mixture of oreos and graham crackers that I smashed in my food processor. I got the idea from watching Ace of Cakes about 1 week before when they were creating a sandcastle cake and using graham cracker for sand.

Lesson for the day: "Try it, it may work!"

Yellow as a Daisy

1. Earrings $16 2. Butterfly Necklace $38 3. Teardrop earrings $16

4. Golden Bracelet $30 5. Paisley Pendant $68 6. Tulle Hair comb $20

7. Drop Earrings $23 8. Jeweled Comb $15 9. Pearl Necklace $72

10. Flower Earrings $10 11. Freshwater Pearls $38 12.Daisy Ring $7

Green to envy

1. Rose earrings 2. Green Apple earrings $14 3. Heart glass Necklace $32

4. Leaf Earrings $27 5. Daisy Pendant $16 6. Peredot ring $50

7. Green comb $48 8. Ivory & Sage $10 9. Hair vine $26

10. Julia Necklace $46 11. Sea Sparkle Necklace $32 12. Green Bracelet $36

For the daring bride

Some red jewelry options:

1. Crystal Earrings $20 2. Cranberry bracelet $30. 3. Ruby Crystal Pendant $19

4. Hair Comb $16 5. Musical Earrings $12 6. Fascinator $20

7. Pearl set $45 8. Love pendant $30 9. Garnet De'esse $35

10. Siam Earrings $14 11. Floral Choker $35 12. Red berry tiara $35

Something Blue-Jewelry

If you're looking for a little color on your wedding day but still want to have a white dress why not try it in some jewelry. I'm going to create different boards for all the colors of jewelry options. First one is my favorite color, blue.

1. Blue earrings $14 2. Necklace $30 3. Blue skies earrings $46

4. Earrings with Mother of Pearl $16 5. Sapphire earrings $16 6. Dainty bracelet $27

7. Blue Skies Necklace $18 8. Necklace and Earring set $34 9. Hawaii Titanium Ring $125

10. Pearl Bracelet $25 11. Triple pearl Necklace $45 12. Crystal Bracelet $24

Eco-budget-friendly: Part 1 - In general

This is the first of a series about how you can plan an eco-friendly wedding that won't break the bank.

First, I must dispel the myth that eco-friendly X means tacking an additional cost to X: in fact, I'll argue that if you're paying more, you're not doing it right!

Simplicity is inherently eco-friendly. It usually takes a small army of bakers to make a cake, for instance. Factor in all the gas burned by each of their cars coming in to work that morning/afternoon to make your cake, the heat of the building in which the cake was made, etc and you start seeing some real eco-savings if you decide to make your own cake (or have it made by a friend/family member who will be coming to the wedding anyway).

Instead of going through one of those green wedding sites and ordering orga/loca/etc invitations, buy recycled paper, and have it printed with a refillable ink cartridge.

For favors and centerpieces, buy things that can be reused. Don't buy 100 tiny cardboard boxes, tie them in bits of ribbon, and fill them with individually wrapped candies - all things which create a lot of waste - instead give each of your guest a small packet of seed in a tiny pot, or even a magnet they can use for many years.

Try to reduce the waste of your wedding by doing small things. Order a keg or two of beer for your guests instead of having an open bar where they purchase individual bottles. If possible, use the hall's linens and cloth napkins, which they will clean and re-use. Rent tuxes instead of buying them. Buy a used wedding dress, take care of it, and then resell it on eBay or Craigslist.

Purchase in-season flowers from a greenhouse, where you can pick them up directly at the location. This way you don't need to have them shipped from far away, which will increase your carbon footprint. Even be bold and use living plants and not flowers - purchase small planters and use ivy, or tiny roseplants, and then give your plants away at the end to your guests. That reduces the waste of all those dead flowers.

I will have individual posts on the items mentioned above in the future - namely, how to make your cake in an affordable and timely fashion, making your own reusable favors and centerpieces for largely eco-friendly materials, and so forth. Stay tuned!

Bridesmaids gift

They were there for you for the highs and lows of wedding planning. So why not find them something cool?

This cute little bowl is $14 from Elms Studios Online

These delectable cupcakes are actually soap at $4 a piece.

This clutch is only $18 and would make a great makeup travel bag.

And my favorite advice for the reception in pendant form for $6.95

The wedding is over, now what?

Pictures of course. Once you get your pictures back, you're gonna want to display them. Today (while looking for frames for my office, which has been recently remodeled) I ran across a few really cute frames that are just a bit unique.

This one is from Walmart: I enjoy collage picture frames. They're a great way to show off major events in your life that require more than one picture to tell the story. Weddings are a great example of this, but so are children. With a collage picture frame you can add a picture a year and wind up with something fabulous for his or her high school graduation. This one is from Target:

I found the last couple on etsy. My son loves to go fishing at our cabin in Canada and these two remind me so much of him.

The little boy in the last picture is just too adorable to not post.

Winter Centerpieces

All of these centerpieces are from Better Homes and Gardens.

Saving money and stress: avoid the pre-wedding diet craze

The admonitions to slim backs, legs, arms, waists, and what-have-you saturate popular wedding sites, often in the form of Health/Fitness blogs, messageboards, and articles.

As Dr. House said on last week's episode, 'Not many women have the courage to admit that they'd rather be pretty than healthy' (I'm paraphrasing).

The truth is, most of these health/fitness sections have a lot less to do with actual health and actual fitness. They're more about feeding into the anxiety, paranoia, and obsession most brides in America have with weight loss before their wedding. If you don't believe me, check out some of the articles - they're mostly about "targeting" certain body parts for shrinkage, and "looking your best" in various kinds of dresses, and so forth. A quick perusal of the messageboards of these sites shows many disordered eating habits, crash diets, and expensive personal trainers being employed to whittle a body down to fit into too-small dress.

So save your money and save yourself stress:

1. Don't buy into the obsession with losing X lbs before the big day. If you're concerned for your health in general, embark on a long-term regime, and don't beat yourself up if you don't lose a significant amount of weight. Health and weight are only tenuously correlated: and one often can become healthier through exercise and moderate nutritional modifications not lose a significant amount of weight.
2. Don't buy into the idea that a thin bride is the only bride that can be pretty. Find the right kind of dress for your unique body type, find a dress that fits at your current weight, and rock it! There are many benefits to this approach: you'll save expensive alterations, the stress of dieting at the same time you're planning a wedding, and possible health issues during the wedding ceremony (many women crash their way into a too-small dress by fasting the day before and day of their wedding. This can lead to fainting spells, irritability, fogginess, etc).
3. Don't be afraid of being yourself in your wedding photos. Do you really want to look back twenty years later at a person who only somewhat resembled your true body, and beat yourself up that you can't any longer fit into a wedding dress that you barely fit into the day of your wedding?
   

So save yourself stress and money: avoid the pre-wedding diet craze. Your body, and your wallet, will thank you for it.

Playmobil wedding

Growing up I was never allowed to play with Legos (too many small pieces I guess) so instead we had to find some entertainment in Playmobil. While not as many free things one can build their people have a lot more detail and come with lots of weird random stuff.

After perusing eBay to see what wedding stuff they offered up I thought I should share. If you or your fiance were into playmobil when you were little these could make a really cute picture on some stationary object (STD's, Invitations, Reception card, Thank You note).

Geeky well wishers

If you've always wanted a different spin on those little scraps of paper people put out for their friends and family to write well wishes on and are also a huge computer geek why not try putting some of these on a few tables:Both are available here for $5.

Music Lover

These planters would make adorable centerpieces for any music lovers. And wouldn't be too hard to do yourself if you wanted to have the music to your first dance song. Just get the sheet music, adhesive spray it to the planter then cover in acrylic to give a nice sheen.

Not that these are too costly either at just $3.77 a piece. Add some flowers to the real planter and viola a gorgeous centerpiece that is also functional after the wedding.

Some STD Inspiration

Some of these pictures would just make the most adorable STD's:

The link

Such a gorgeous woodcut, that would be adorably sweet

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The link

I love the title of this one "Love Makes us Bloom"

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The link

Such a cute start to a love story

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El Linksky

Ready to start your home together?

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More links

Perfect for any rabbit lovers out there

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Last one

Just for the blogging bride and groom (maybe it'll even encourage some RSVPs on-line)

I really want a simple wedding, but....

My parents want to throw a huge party and invite all their friends and lots of extended family. This is the situation that I dealt with when planning my wedding. My parents had visions of inviting everyone and their dogs to the wedding. The problem is, my mom's side of the family is quite religious and is very set against drinking and such, so we had to figure out how to keep them happy too.

For those of you that are dealing with a similar dilemma, here's what I eventually settled on with my parents:

We had a small, family only wedding (except for those friends who were actually in the wedding and their significant others). Following the ceremony, those that attended the wedding were served food. Those that were not invited to the ceremony were invited to come at a later time, so it also cut costs by quite a bit by not serving as many people supper. Here's a pic of me and my best friend as she was helping me get ready.

Those who came later were welcome to eat the left-over food and have some cake (we did get plenty of cake, but that's a whole other rant). After the food, the reception was exactly what my parents really wanted. I know there's no way I talked to everyone. There was plenty of booze to go around. Everyone had a wonderful time. My bridesmaids didn't allow for too much leftovers as you can see by this picture. We propose this should become a picture that everyone has to take for their wedding because it's just too much fun to take.

As far as my mom's family, they're the type that won't stay out late, so by setting the time for the large reception a bit later, her family was gone by the time the booze came out (at least in large quantities).

So, for those of you dealing with this problem, either you want a small wedding or maybe the tables are turned and you want the big wedding and your parents don't: consider meeting in the middle. It saves tons of money and you've compromised enough to hopefully make everyone happy.

Etsy winter wedding

As December descends upon us I thought it'd be fun to share some great winter wedding finds from etsy.

1. Snow queen Garter 2. Ring Bearers Pillow 3. Capelet
4.Icy roses headband 5. Snow blossom Earrings 6.Crystal cake topper
7. Flowers in the snow necklace 8. Hair pins 9. Frost Peony hair piece

1. Winter glasses 2.Blue headpiece 3. Bird Cake toppers
4. Snowflake guestbook 5.Snowflake embossed invitations 6. Blue necklace
7. Hair combs for bridal party 8.Snowflake Garter 9. Snow people card
10. Capelet 11. Feathered hair piece 12. Snow bell earrings

A bit off the subject

Well, I had an interesting experience this weekend. While out shopping on Friday (and yes, it was a bit scary), I ran into a couple girls in the dressing room. That wouldn't have bothered me so much if they hadn't been trying on and showing off the santa-style lingerie.

I'm sure it looked fine; I'm not the type to check out girls in the dressing room so I wasn't looking that close, but when the one said "And I could even wear it to school because it goes past my hips", I lost it. I was laughing hysterically (while trying to remain quiet) as I went on trying on my pants. The next thing I heard was "but how are you going to get it past your grandma?". I mean, seriously, this is a problem.

Has anyone else had an experience like this they'd like to share?

A Thanksgiving Wedding

For your guests

Want to give your guests a favor to remember your special day, but don't want to spend a fortune on trinkets? WrapWithUs carries a huge selection of affordable favors, including these (all under $1!).

1. Bath salts 2. Picture frame 3. Rose-shaped candles 4. Cookie cutter set 5. Mint tin 6. Bookmark 7. Keychain 8. Scented candle 9. Bottle stopper

A not so rosy wedding

No, I'm not saying the wedding went bad, although there were definintely things that could have gone better (i.e. bridesmaid #2). I'm saying I didn't want roses at my wedding because everyone uses roses. I had daisies. I love daisies! They're just a happy flower!

The other thing that caused me to choose daisies is the thought that I really wanted a green and yellow wedding, not particularly due to John Deere (though my husband would say otherwise). Actually, I just love green and although there are other colors that go well with it, none go as well as yellow.



The plan was that my bridesmaids would wear hunter green and maid of honor would wear yellow, but that went downhill fast because she absolutely could not pull off a yellow dress to save her life, so we decided to go with purple for her dress (from B2), which ended up being my other color. So the only way I got to have my green and yellow wedding was to have yellow flowers, and although yellow roses are by far my favorite flower, I didn't want to have your normal wedding. (Yellow roses are also symbols of friendship, which seemed not quite right also.) Daisies are so happy and so simple, it was just so me. Daisies also seemed more informal, which is me through and throuh.



So if you haven't already gone for the traditional roses, take a look around. Daisies are a wonderful option.



Lastly, I'm going to leave you with this picture. I just thought it was a beautiful picture. I LOVE DAISIES!